“Whoever gives an honest answer kisses the lips” Proverbs 24:26 ESV. Ever received a review, critique, or feedback that stung, but you told yourself, “It didn’t? And you don’t care.” Yet, day after day, the critique hangs around like a squatter living in your rental property. And no matter how hard you try to kick the squatter out, they won’t …
How to Quiet the Critics
Did anyone conduct last week’s exercise? Here, I challenged you to share with someone, what you fear the most as a writer. Then journal how you felt before you shared, while you shared, and after you shared. I conducted this exercise on last Tuesday by sharing on Facebook Live. After I finished, I journaled what I felt before I conducted …
Seven Steps to Share God’s Work in Your Life
Imagine you’re headed to the Amazon. C’mon, play along, even if you’d never go anywhere that didn’t have a Starbucks. You’ve seen pictures and cannot wait to smell the flowers, see the birds, hear the tree frogs and float down the river! You know your body, so your packing list includes allergy medicine and aspirin. You’ve heard of dengue fever …
Four Tools to Show a Character’s Feelings of Love
Today, I’m nestled in my upstairs office, thankful for electricity. It’s -7 here, historical lows for us in the south. On the writing front, I missed my Feb. 15th beta reader deadline. I know, I’m unhappy about it. But I did manage to submit edits to an editing project I’m a part of, so now that I’ve met that obligation, …
Beyond the ‘Desolate Impossibility
“When I face the desolate impossibility of writing five hundred pages, a sick sense of failure falls on me, and I know I can never do it. Then gradually, I write one page and then another. One day’s work is all I can permit myself to contemplate.” – John Steinbeck. Well, there you go. 2020 has been a lesson in, …
Five Lessons I’ve Learned about Meeting Writing Deadlines
February blogging is focused on writing tips. And I’m back to blogging once a week (thankfully, I have two guest blogs-yea!). If you’ve followed my writing journey in January, I thought it fitting to give you an update especially since I vowed to be accountable to you. My goals and the deadline. Work on my fiction for two hours a day, …
Three Discoveries from Working On My Writing Goal
How are you doing? Specifically on your writing goals? Have you made any? Or considered sharing your story (even in a different format such as blogging, vlogging, on social?) I’m like a little child playing in the backyard from morning to dusk and doesn’t want to come inside for dinner. I’m enjoying writing, crafting, and reading, assimilating myself into the …
Be More Productive with a Yes Goal
Happy New Year! My husband and I are back in Tulsa, after spending the holidays in northern Michigan with family. My husband, a native of Oklahoma, was like a little kid because he got to experience a white Christmas! We went sledding, snowmobiling, and snowshoeing. We tapped into our inner child as we sled down the snow hills. I laughed …
Who Is a Classical Villain in the Bible?
The Bible provides a wealth of villains, some more memorable than others (Satan), but most commit heinous acts of destruction. One such antagonist is Haman, the Agagite. He follows the classic traits from raising up the ranks of power, plotting not only the destruction of one righteous man but a whole ethnic group. But, like many classic stories, his bloodlust …
Who’s Your Favorite Christmas Villain?
Happy Christmas! Hope you’re enjoying Christmas Eve! I’m in northern Michigan where it’s in the twenties with light carpet of snow. My mom’s house is festive with Christmas trees, nativity scenes, Christmas villages, snowman figurines in every room. (Yes, including the bathrooms.) And we’ve watched a few Christmas movies. This week, we watched It’s a Wonderful Life. I couldn’t imagine …